Random Sunday Thoughts

Good Sunday morning to all whom wander this way...

I have several thoughts roaming my mind this morning...like aging gracefully, sexuality, health, happiness, spirituality

I've decided I am having a sexy Sunday !

HUH? You might ask....how can one be thinking such thoughts on Sunday morning....well, dear readers, healthy human sexuality and healthy body image IS part of human spirituality

I look rather sexy this morning. I have no makeup on, there is still bed-head and I am wearing a simple white t-shirt with my comfy red/black trackpants.

I am a world away from my alluringly sexy ideal, but I still look the goods.

In fact, it's a shame I'm all alone in this house with two wee dogs, fresh flowers and a computer for company.

I am a happy girl though.....yesterday, I received two deliveries of FLOWERS, one a glorious spring mix in a water arrangement, the other red roses...

The occasion? The anniversary of my birth is tomorrow

My darling BROTHER had the roses sent...he is a good brother, he planned ahead, I know this because he is currently out of the country. My SISTER knows I love a mixture of flowers, and sends them for any little reason.

And! I have presents sent by mail that I am to open tomorrow...

So, all is good, I am blessed in many ways....

And guess what ? !

Even though it's Sunday....

I look sexy. I feel sexy. I am sexy. And while the mention of living alone for all intents and purposes is contradictory, I live a very sexy life. After all, I am a small southern belle...

These thoughts this morning got me to thinking....

How does one become sexy?

As all truly sexy people will tell you, when it comes to living the dream, we are simply a result of our own perceptions.

If you choose to believe that your best years are behind you or that you are simply not That Type, then the chances of being sexy and living a sexy life are considerably reduced.

Living that life is not just having loads of orgasms, wearing scandalous undies and having a bevy of lovers, although it sounds awfully good. ( not really the bevy of lovers part, for I am a monogamous kind of girl.)

Isn't it really all about the ability to live with passion, pleasure and satisfaction everyday, no matter your age or body type? For although a good set of undies and a set of impossibly long legs helps, true sexiness is something felt and radiates from within.

One of the sexiest women I know is friend of mine. I met her in college and we have remained steadfast friends.

Short, a bit plump and not overly pretty, she has men eating out of her hands. She is an outrageous flirt and does so unflinchingly, not only with men, but women, small children and animals.

She is loads of fun and loves to have a good laugh. When she laughs, she tosses her head back and crinkles her eyes. She laughs a lot. She also has lots of monogamous sex.

She is an amazing and sexy woman because she values herself.

She enjoys who she is and she loves her life, passionately. This is her secret weapon and one that is devastatingly seductive.

Think sexy. Act sexy. Be sexy.

A sexy woman does not waste time or energy on what she doesn't have, but rather concentrates on what she does have.

My friend does not have long legs, a flat tummy or even very good teeth, but she does have sparkling eyes, an infectious laugh, a passion for adventure and the ability to make whoever she is talking to feel incredibly interesting.

Her enthusiasm for life, throaty laugh and warm personality act like a delicous cocktail of pheromones, alluring and irresistible to whomever she is with.

I have learned a few things from this friend.

How to live sexy is one of them:

• Become a Pleasure Seeker.

Make it a daily adventure. It's the Number One rule for any budding sexbomb. Take enjoyment in little every day pleasures, from the simple delight of a crisp morning walk, to the deliciously flirtatious exchange with a stranger. List the things that give you the most pleasure and rate them out of ten. Anything that rates higher than seven needs to be introduced on a daily basis. Sexiness is a state of mind that will help you reap pleasure every day if you let it. Don't deny yourself. Pleasure is what fills your life with joy, boosts your self esteem and endows you with allure.

• Sexy is as Sexy does.

Think sexy, act sexy, be sexy. I dare you to shake your booty out of the same old state of mind. Portray yourself in a positive light, tell your whiny inner bitch to stop the negative chat and watch how your new self image affects how you view yourself and how others treat you. Sexy women are brave and confident, they aren't perfect and they don't care. What they like to do is push their own boundaries and aren't afraid to fall over from time to time. They DON"T act like bitches,however. Why on earth would any woman proudly proclaim herself a bitch? Respect yourself and others will.

• Rethink your View on Sexiness.

Sexiness is more than the physical allure of long legs and big baby biscuitss. While enviable attributes, they don't belong to us all. A good deal of us have, instead, body bits that are short, wobbly or ill-defined. In order to become sexy, it is important to make peace with what you've got. It won't make the flabby body bits disappear, but the first step to sexiness means embracing and celebrating the body bits that you do like. Get body confident and look within yourself for validation. Celebrate your body, with all of its flaws. When you believe you are sexy, and are willing to say so, you'll be oozing sex appeal.

• Build a Sexy Outlook.

My sexy friend doesn't need other people to make her feel the way she does. There are no limits or conditions to her sexy life. She's got guts and goes after what she wants, but NOT in a bitchy way. Her horizons are broad. Well-travelled and worldly, she thinks nothing of jumping from great heights into the great unknown. Excitement and adventure fuel her self-belief and boost her confidence. She has survived numerous life style changes, a few big blunders and lived to tell the tale. Building a sexy outlook means broadening your horizons, trying something new, however small, and doing it with gusto. Start slowly but surely; hop out of your comfort zone and approach your life with passion.

Who doesn't want to live a sexy life, a life bursting with pleasure, passion, and value ? !

Learn to love your thighs.

I have learned to love my height : )

Life's too short to live anything less than sexy.

I love ME, but not in a vain way : )

Best wishes to all for a SEXY Sunday morning !

~ Kimberly